When it is unlocked and charging, all you need to do is release the charge handle lock. There is a sensor on the vehicle that immediately stops the charging circuit. (Electrical diagram was posted in another thread). We have stopped charging like this May times at home and I believe it will stop at EA also
The lever on the plug is linked to the proximity pilot pin that communicates with the EV.
The Proximity Pilot (PP) pin is a communication pin that sends signals between the charging station and the vehicle, enabling it to communicate its charging capabilities and initiate or terminate the charging process.
From what I understand, when the lever is pushed on the J1772, it is interpreted by the car to stop requesting energy from the EVSE, and simultaneously disengages the latch from the port, enabling the plug to be removed. My guess is, the requirement to unlock the car that can be set in settings presumably blocks the signal from the proximity pilot from being sent to the car when locked, or informs the controller to ignore the signal. Since the car isn't releasing its port latch, the plug remains "locked".
When set to not lock, or when the car is unlocked and the lever is pushed, there is a short delay before you can remove the plug, in that delay period, energy stops flowing. So, unless Hyundai completely failed to follow J1772 safety standards in this regard, it should be perfectly safe to press the lever and remove the plug.